Tips for Tackling Those End-of-Life Decisions

Tips for Tackling Those End-of-Life Decisions

Suffice it to say, inescapable human mortality ranks high among most people’s least favorite discussion topics; it’s guaranteed to kill the conversation at any party. That aversion, however, does not change the fact that no one gets here out of here alive and that it is crucial to make those disagreeable, end-of-life decisions while they’re still yours to make.

And bear in mind, as morbid as the topic might seem, it can be a source of comfort for your family, as it will make it easier for them to know they are acting according to your wishes. The discussion also carries the additional benefit of presenting an ideal opportunity to reflect on your life’s challenges and achievements and to celebrate them accordingly. Here are a few must-dos to ensure you make the best possible end-of-life decisions.

State of Health: The best way to start the process is to make sure you understand the current state of your health. This will play a crucial role in determining the shape and scope of your final years. Consult your doctor concerning any chronic conditions, the path they are likely to take in the future and what kind of care will be necessary. Don’t be afraid to ask questions or ignore troubling answers – it’s important to learn as much as you can.

Advance Directive: Utilize information regarding your current state of health to create an advance directive, which will document your care and treatment preferences to your loved ones and medical personnel in the event you can no longer make these decisions. Make sure to talk with those closest to you – your family, doctor and treatment team – to ensure everyone knows what is most important to you.

Calling the Shots: Another way to plan for the future is to appoint someone to make decisions for you should you become unable to do so. These legal appointments can take a variety of shapes – a medical treatment decision-maker oversees your larger health needs, while an enduring power of attorney enables someone to manage your finances. It’s important to select people to you trust to make these decisions on your behalf.

Dollars and Sense: It also is critical at this time in your life to put your finances in order. If you have appointed a financial enduring power of attorney, work with them to ensure that your wishes are known and documented. Check to see that your will is up to date. Consider hiring a financial professional to oversee these matters.

Personal Matters: There may be other personal matters you would like to put into place at this time. These can include securing a special place to visit with friends in the final months or particular requests regarding your funeral service. Again, now is the time to tackle these personal matters. Talk them over with family so that everyone knows your wishes.

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